Musings of heart

I'm writing this blog after 1.5 years. What do you think might have happened? Had I stopped dreaming or was I too busy to write by dream experiences. I think it was neither of the two cases. I was just not interacting with my creativity any longer. Looking back, a lot of things have changed in the past 1.5 years. I would like to congratulate myself as I got married two months back:-)

Incidentally, my three other colleagues also got married around the same time. I got the first hand experience of how a girl feels before and after marriage when she has to cope up with too many changes. Right from getting her make-up right to adjusting to an entirely new family, one has to forget oneself if not for long, for a while. Often, big changes come with a huge fear factor. Would I be able to portray myself as a perfect bahu? Will people give me time to reconcile to the new situations? Would I be able to accept my new surroundings? What if things don't turn out the way I wanted them to? Should I run and turn an escapist? Or should I take a more philosophical view of life and hope that things would improve with time?

Well, the soultion is to go with the flow. Don't think too much. When you enter a new workplace, you take your own good time to acclimatise yourself to the new surroundings. Don't you? Marriage is no different. But here's a word of caution. Don't take things for granted. Make your contribution of love, care and dedication and you would sure win the hearts in no time.

As I look forward to a new set of beginnings, instead of resisting change, I'm embracing it warmly. And wanna know what's happening? The new place is now cosily comfortable and pampering me with endless love, care and understanding. I'm blessed!